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9 Common Style Mistakes Men Should Avoid In 2023
Did you get dressed in the dark? Have you had a look in a mirror recently? Did you have a fight with your wardrobe? All questions that we never want to hear, but in a world where fashion and especially menswear moves so quickly, how do you avoid making the mistakes that risk derision?
Well, as you’re about to discover, some of the answers rely on good old common sense and an absence of self-delusion, while others are a little more fickle.
Nevertheless, dressing well is not a done deal for a lot of people. Maybe you are short on the time you need to think about your personal aesthetic, or maybe you’re just not that bothered and would rather make looking good an easy-to-follow ritual that doesn’t require much creativity.
Or maybe you’ve come to a part of your life where the trajectory has changed – newly single and/or newly minted – and you can literally afford to apply more consideration to how you project yourself to the world.
Wherever you are in life, there exist certain mistakes which we would all do well to swerve, so read on to discover the pitfalls threatening to rug pull your style credentials in 2023.
Heed the Hoodie

Mango proving you can wearing high quality hoodies with smarter pieces
While we’re big fans of the hoodie, we’ve seen it desecrate some perfectly good outfits this year as guys try in vain to hit the athleisure or stealth wealth trend using the wrong type of hoodie.
A heedless embrace of a regular hoodie can relegate you to the land of perpetual adolescence, so tread carefully. If you’re going for the stealth wealth/quiet luxury vibe then you absolutely need to spend some coin on a minimalist cashmere version. A cheap cotton one just won’t cut it when you’re trying to layer it beneath a suede jacket or wool coat.
Heavyweight organic cotton styles in classic grey can be a great casual layer beneath a camel wool coat with some wide-leg tailored trousers, for instance – textural variance, interesting silhouette, edgy melding of tailoring and streetwear.
But throwing on any old hoodie with a pair of jeans and kicks, or worse, with smart separates, is more offensive than pineapple on pizza, especially if you’re north of 40.
Age Before Audacity

Older men should look to quality tailored separates, such as these from Corneliani
Speaking of 40 year olds, of which this writer is gracefully included, we’d all do well to sever ourselves from the delusion memories, and threads, of our youth.
The golden rule of dressing your age remains immutable. But at Ape to Gentleman, we find that statement a bit reductive, or at least that’s how a lot of men interpret it.
Instead, the term should be ‘dress age-less’, by incorporating timeless menswear classics while keeping them contemporary with flashes of pattern and pops of colour.
It goes without saying that maintaining a decent physique is imperative at any age but especially into the years when one can go to bed feeling fine and wake up the following morning with an injury.
Tailored shapes are the key here. We’re not talking Pitti peacockery either, just nicely fitted blazers and trousers which will bring a tonne of styling options to your suits and separates.
Logos: Whisper, Don’t Shout

The quality of these Canali clothes shines through without the need for overt branding
In a world inundated with logos, subtlety reigns supreme. This season more than any, a discreet hint of luxury has spoken louder than a cacophony of ostentation, with brands such as Brunello Cucinelli, Loro Piana, The Row and a plethora of others all cheerleading for a stealth wealth approach to luxury.
We’re not adverse to the logo per se, in fact it’s almost impossible to build a wardrobe these days without any logos or brand motifs, but the secret is to keep the volume turned low.
Usually, if your clothing has to shout, you probably don’t have much to say.
Athleisure Autopilot

Luxury hoodies rendered in cashmere, like this one from Luca Faloni, can be combined effortlessly with smart-casual wear
While athleisure champions comfort, it can lead to a perilous nosedive into sartorial apathy. Crisp joggers and sleek sneakers paired with a tailored wool coat is the perfect high/low blend that will attract all the right attention.
The aforementioned cashmere hoodie, or joggers, can even be the dance partners for an unstructured blazer and baseball cap. But unkempt gym attire trying to pass for streetwear just looks lazy. You’re better than that.
The Oversized Odyssey

Richard Gere showing us how to pull off slouchy tailoring in American Gigolo
The oversized aesthetic marches on, but navigating its terrain requires some finesse. Don’t get us wrong, we’re not averse to big boxy tailored silhouettes, or an oversized cardigan, but they need to have a degree of artistry and avant-gardism to them, whilst not being completely bonkers.
An artful oversized blazer, akin to Timothée Chalamet’s red carpet excursions, can be a great statement piece, because it’s ‘fashion’. An ensemble reminiscent of a borrowed wardrobe, courtesy of a significantly larger sibling or father, on the other hand, risks invoking memories of nineties sitcom characters.
Shoe Selection Shuffle

You don’t have to wear the same kicks as all the cool kids
Footwear is the keystone to a well-orchestrated outfit, yet missteps abound. Craft a narrative with versatile shoes that complement rather than clash.
Footwear reminiscent of a time-traveling mishap – pairing wingtips with techwear, for example – hints at a glitch in the matrix. It’s not rocket science. Don’t try to force shoe styles on a look for the sake of being different or edgy. Just because everyone under 25 with a canvas tote bag is wearing New Balance with chinos, doesn’t mean that you should.
Shoe trends, especially sneaker ones, burn hard and burn fast. Don’t be left wearing the embers.
Rethinking The T-Shirt Terrain

A selection of high quality, organic T-shirts by ASKET
Simple off-duty looks should be a breeze to conjure up but that doesn’t mean you can take your eye off the ball, especially when it comes to the T-shirt. Too many decent outfits have been knobbled by an ugly, poor quality tee.
The bargain plain white five-pack only looks good on your bank balance, but wash them once and you’ll rue the purchase. Instead, opt for the best quality organic cotton or linen that you can find and build a base of white, black, navy, beige, grey options to give your wardrobe exponential styling directions.
The Mismatched Misadventure

A single patterned piece is all you need to stand out, as proven by Frescobol Carioca
Experimentation is the lifeblood of style, but mismatching haphazardly is a pitfall to avoid. Embrace considered contrasts à la Pharrell Williams, harmonising colour and pattern for a purposeful discord.
Avoiding clashing prints is the safe way forward. There’s not a great deal of style real estate on the human body so if you only opt for one pattern you’re on the right track.
The Unkempt Underestimation

A spot of regular grooming is all you need to keep yourself looking handsome
You can have the most comprehensive, elegant and contemporary wardrobe on earth but it would be all for nothing if your personal grooming is non-existent.
This is not a call to take up a Patrick Bateman-style grooming regimen, but at the very least you should invest in a haircut that suits your face, and spend some time each week maintaining your face and any furniture you might have growing on it.
It’s all the more important if your aesthetic is smart and tailored, since the juxtaposition is all the more magnified.
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I love to travel and enjoy doing things outdoors, like hiking or working remotely from quaint little coffee shops.
The best thing about the blog for me is the ability to discuss anything, from personal life to current events.
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Meet the Palantir Mafia, who have collectively raised more than $6 billion for their own startups
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- Some former Palantir employees have left the software company to build their own startups.
- BI identified 30 founders building in the AI, legaltech, consumer, and healthcare spaces.
- The Palantir Mafia includes Partiful, Ironclad, Joe Lonsdale, Anduril, Garry Tan, and more.
Move over, PayPal: there's a new tech mafia in town.
Meet the Palantir Mafia: from Y Combinator's Garry Tan, to Joe Lonsdale, to the founders of ElevenLabs, IronClad, and Partiful, the big data software company has produced a slew of former employees who now run startups and investment funds of their own.
More than a decade ago, PayPal set the standard for producing a formidable group of alumni who now run their own companies, including Elon Musk, David Sacks, Reid Hoffman, Max Levchin, and Peter Thiel — who later co-founder Palantir.
Now, Facebook and Oracle each have their own mafias and more recent tech companies like Square, OpenAI, and Instacart have mafias, too.
Palantir's original clients were federal agencies, and one of its core product offerings, "Gotham," assists in locating targets on battlefields. While some former Palantir employees are leveraging their experience to found defense tech startups, others are building companies in healthcare, consumer, AI, and enterprise.
Palantir mafia companies have been backed by top VC firms including a16z, Sequoia, Redpoint, and Accel, as well as the prestigious startup accelerator Y Combinator.
In total, the startups identified by BI have collectively raised more than $6 billion in VC funding, according to PitchBook data as well as founders themselves. More than half of that funding — $3.8 billion — went to one place: Anduril, the defense-tech startup founded by three Palantir alums.
Take a look at BI's list of 30 Palantir Mafia members who are now startup founders. We put Y Combinator's Garry Tan at the top of the list and then listed everyone else in descending order based on how much VC funding their startup has raised.
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I love to travel and enjoy doing things outdoors, like hiking or working remotely from quaint little coffee shops.
The best thing about the blog for me is the ability to discuss anything, from personal life to current events.
I enjoy spending time with my Wife, 2 boys, and my Pug, Patty. I love traveling and speaking at social media events.
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Spruce up your space for spring by decluttering
The author (not pictured) found that decluttering helped ease symptoms of anxiety and OCD.
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Happy Saturday! Feeling too busy to work out? One 37-year-old mom lost 100 pounds by using this three-step strategy. Sounds simple enough!
On the agenda:
- Young people with colon cancer share the early signs that doctors misdiagnosed.
- A new luxury development in Manhattan is offering amenities — for a steep price tag.
- We tested out the new hottest water bottle to see if it's worth the hype.
- Patricia Arquette has a message for anyone looking for "Severance" spoilers.
But first: Ready, set, spring clean.
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This week's dispatch
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It's time to sweep into spring
Do you feel it? I'm talking about the warmer weather, the sun shining just a little bit longer, and the winter blues going away. We're enjoying the first signs of spring, and it feels reaaaally good.
With spring also comes a chance to renew your personal space. Not to give you too much homework, but it's time to spring clean.
Thankfully, BI's Life team has been all over the decluttering trend — and has spoken to many professionals and families who make this seemingly uphill task quite easy.
If you want to get started this weekend, declutter expert Sonia Weiser has three tips:
- Start with your drawers and closets. You want to tackle anything that's actually used for storage first: bookshelves, medicine cabinets, and even your desk.
- "Divide it by what you want to keep, what you want to donate or give to someone you know, and what you want to trash," Weiser says.
- If you find it hard to let go, ask an impartial friend to help you decide what to keep and what to toss.
For more tips, read Weiser's advice on decluttering with ease.
Colon cancer misdiagnosis
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Colon cancer is on the rise, especially among young people. Early symptoms can be mild and resemble other digestive issues like IBS or celiac disease — sometimes leading to misdiagnosis in the early stages.
For doctors, diagnosing young patients is a tricky tightrope to walk. Colonoscopies cost around $2,000 on average, so doctors typically won't urge young people to get them unless they have serious symptoms or a family history of cancer.
$750,000 for a parking spot, anyone?
Renderings of the two-tower development in West Village.
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New York City real estate is a beast, and $1 million doesn't always get you very far. One new luxury development is proof.
In the West Village, 80 Clarkson's most expensive unit is priced at $63 million. Buyers can pay additional big bucks for all the perks, like a $1 million private wine cellar — and don't forget to budget for a parking spot.
What's the buzz about Bink?
Bink water bottles at Target.
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Bink is the latest brand to enter the water bottle craze, taking over the spot previously held by Owala and Stanley cups. The silicone-covered glass bottles are all over Instagram and pilates studios.
But beyond the aesthetics, are they worth the hype? BI's Amanda Krause tested one out and found them to be better than her Stanley — but not by much.
Don't expect it to fit your car's cupholder.
No 'Severance' spoilers here
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Fans of the hit HBO show know Patricia Arquette as the guarded Harmony Cobel. But her acting career spans an array of TV and film projects, and she's a voice for equality in Hollywood.
In the latest installment of BI's Role Play series, Arquette wants you to know that she doesn't care if you're on the edge of your seat watching the new season. She thinks you should stay right there.
Plus, the advice she got from Martin Scorsese.
What we're watching this weekend
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- "The Electric State": Chris Pratt and "Stranger Things" star Millie Bobby Brown team up for Netflix's new sci-fi adventure movie.
- "Moana 2": The sequel to the beloved 2016 animated movie is now available on Disney+ after breaking Thanksgiving box office records.
- "The Wheel of Time": Prime Video's popular fantasy series is back for season three.
iStock; Rebecca Zisser/BI
What to shop
- Bras you won't hate: What if we told you that you don't have to sacrifice comfort in exchange for supporting a large chest? We've rounded up the best bralettes for large busts that do both, including plus-size-inclusive options.
- Neutral basics with a twist: All the "it" girls have been sporting this brand around NYC, so we put it to the test. After trying out some of the most popular designs, we broke down all the ways they got it right in our Marcella review.
- Sleep Awareness Week: We're near the end of Sleep Week, but it's not too late to score some incredible deals from our favorite brands. Mattresses, pillows, sheets, and pajamas are on sale — peep our roundup of the best Sleep Week deals.
More of this week's top reads:
- I moved my young family to Europe. Our expenses are about the same, but our quality of life is so much better.
- A woman realized she could work out to live longer, not just look better. 3 simple things helped her make exercise a fun, daily habit.
- I spent a night at an all-inclusive resort on an island off the coast of Africa. My private villa cost $900 a night and was worth every penny.
- I traveled first class on Amtrak for the first time. The most luxurious perk wasn't even on the train.
- We're two of America's top real-estate agents. Here's where wealthy people are moving.
- 3 high-protein, high-fiber recipes that boost gut health and aren't ultra-processed — by a doctor who specializes in nutrition.
- A James Bond expert shares the one thing Amazon should focus on to get 007 right — and the one thing it should avoid.
- I make my own sourdough bread to save money on groceries. Here are 5 things I wish I'd known before I started.
- From AI strollers to 'smart socks,' millennials are obsessed with high-tech baby gear.
- A retired Wall Street manager started exercising at 70, lost 35 pounds, and fixed his back pain. Here are his 3 tips for getting fit.
- My only parenting regret is using funny filters on most of my daughter's baby photos.
- How Meghan Trainor spends her 5 to 9 — from couples therapy to nerding out about protein.
The BI Today team: Dan DeFrancesco, deputy editor and anchor, in New York City (on paternity leave). Grace Lett, editor, in New York. Lisa Ryan, executive editor, in New York. Amanda Yen, associate editor, in New York. Elizabeth Casolo, fellow, in Chicago.
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I love to travel and enjoy doing things outdoors, like hiking or working remotely from quaint little coffee shops.
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New York tech workers are flocking to a coffee shop across from OpenAI’s new office. I checked it out to see why.
The author holds a matcha latte and bagged treat outside La Cabra in Manhattan's SoHo neighborhood.
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- The next Blue Bottle has hit New York's tech scene.
- La Cabra's popularity has soared since ChatGPT-maker OpenAI put down roots across the street.
- The Danish coffee chain is famed for its $9 pour-over brews and cardamom buns.
The line to La Cabra stretches onto the sidewalk, a tidy queue of office workers and shoppers sauntering through the warm, muggy embrace of a New York City spring.
Inside, at least twenty patrons hover near the bar like caffeinated moths around a flame, clutching iced matcha lattes and croissants. A barista weaves through the standing-room-only crowd, hoisting a tray of pain suisse aloft.
Welcome to New York's hottest club: the café across from OpenAI's office.
La Cabra, the latest export from Denmark's high-end coffee empire, has inspired a cult following among Manhattan's coffee cognoscenti. Led by founder Esben Piper and head baker Jared Sexton, a Dominique Ansel alum, the sleek, minimalist chain entices crowds with its $9 pour-over brews and cardamom buns worthy of sonnets. Since the ChatGPT-maker moved into SoHo in the fall of last year, the line to get in seems to grow longer each day.
The Puck Building is becoming the red-hot center of Manhattan's tech scene.
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Nestled caddy corner from the Puck Building, La Cabra finds itself in illustrious company. The red-brick structure is owned by Kushner Companies, a real estate developer founded by Charles Kushner, father of Jared Kushner, the son-in-law of President Donald Trump, and Josh Kushner, founder of Thrive Capital. The outdoor gear retailer REI covers 36,000 square feet over three levels. Above it, employees of Thrive and a smattering of its portfolio companies badge into their offices.
Thrive Capital, with nearly $25 billion in assets under management, has a small staff of about 75 people. Plaid also leases the entire sixth floor, while OpenAI occupies 90,000 square feet of office space at its first New York City outpost.
Together, their proximity to La Cabra has turned the Danish coffee roaster into an unofficial think tank for anyone in the mood for a latte with a side of world domination.
La Cabra offers limited seating around the counter, where baristas prepare pour-over brews and matcha lattes.
Melia Russell/Business Insider
Amanda Herson, a tech investor at Founder Collective, says she's been buying coffee and cardamom buns for her office since La Cabra opened on Lafayette Street. She goes in the early morning "when there isn't much of a wait." Tech consultant Jason Liu agrees that mornings tend to have lighter traffic. On frequent trips to New York from San Francisco, he holds office hours at the Puck Building and dashes over to La Cabra for a chocolate croissant and iced espresso with milk.
First Round Capital is a five-minute walk from La Cabra, and partner Hayley Barna goes for the pastries and trendspotting. "Honestly, it's tricky to make it a meeting spot because seating isn't reliable," Barna said.
I went to La Cabra twice and found the line was much shorter on a Thursday morning.
Melia Russell/Business Insider
When I stopped in on a Thursday morning, I took in the scene from a stool at the counter, sipping a cardamom latte from a handleless stoneware cup. With its natural color palette and cabinets inset with panels of rattan, La Cabra feels like a Japanese ryokan meets Ikea. Baristas floated behind the counter wearing the de rigueur Danish uniform of beige shirts with three-quarter sleeves designed by Copenhagen clothier Another Aspect.
The pastry case at La Cabra.
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First, I dug into a $7 ham-and-cheese croissant baked to a medium brown and speckled with sesame seeds and parsley. It had a crisp, caramelized exterior so that when I bit in, a gust of flakes fell like helicopter seeds, which I picked up and popped into my mouth. The beauty of the laminated spiral gave way to a satisfying buttery crunch with a scant portion of ham. I found it skimping on cheese but recognized that more filling would make the interior soggy.
The ham-and-cheese croissant at La Cabra.
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I couldn't resist trying the $6 Swedish cardamom bun I'd read about online. This knotted pastry was delightfully unexpected: chewy and dense like a cinnamon roll, yet airy enough to puff back into shape with each bite. The recipe goes heavy on the cardamom, infusing the pastry with a piney warmth and gentle sweetness.
The cardamom buns are known to sell out, though Piper, La Cabra's founder, says the chain makes deliveries from its East Village bakery three times a day to restock the pastry case. To expand its operations, the company has secured a fourth location in Manhattan, Piper told Business Insider exclusively.
The cardamom bun at La Cabra.
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As I licked my fingers clean of sugar, I scanned the cafe in search of employee badges or logo apparel, hoping for a glimpse of a startup executive in their natural habitat. In New York, unlike San Francisco, it seems that such overt displays of corporate allegiance are not as prevalent. Here, the tech elite and builders blend into the street milieu, swapping hoodies adorned with company logos for more voguish attire.
Feeling the caffeine buzz kick in, I left knowing that I'd return soon — if not for a meeting, then to try the pain suisse.
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By: [email protected] (Melia Russell)
Title: New York tech workers are flocking to a coffee shop across from OpenAI’s new office. I checked it out to see why.
Sourced From: www.businessinsider.com/la-cabra-coffee-shop-review-openai-new-york-office-2025-3
Published Date: Wed, 12 Mar 2025 09:00:01 +0000

I’m Jason, and I write for ValleyNewspaper.com!
I love to travel and enjoy doing things outdoors, like hiking or working remotely from quaint little coffee shops.
The best thing about the blog for me is the ability to discuss anything, from personal life to current events.
I enjoy spending time with my Wife, 2 boys, and my Pug, Patty. I love traveling and speaking at social media events.
If you want to know anything else, ask!
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